I’m a big fan of YouTube. I love the way just about anyone can upload a video and share their talent (okay…in some cases, the word “talent” might be a little generous). I love how folks can capture something amazing, funny, silly, weird, or cringe-worthy and share it with the world.
On the other hand, it’s more than a little horrifying that just about anybody can video anything at any time.
That time you drank a few too many Jagerbombs at the office party. The time you went to the grocery store in your crappiest sweats because it was just a quick trip and you were sure you weren’t going to run into anyone you knew. Or the time you picked your nose while stuck in traffic. Or maybe the time you had a ginormous fight with your significant other in public…and then made up passionately afterwards.
Personally, I’m grateful no one filmed the time I had a spectacular nursing mishap when my eldest was a newborn (although I’m reasonably sure that guy across the restaurant who got an eyeful will never forget). I’m even more glad there was no YouTube or Facebook when I was growing up. I’d hate to be famous for any of the idiotic growing up mistakes I made, on the off-chance they went viral. While I may want to be on YouTube someday, I hope it’s only ever by choice.
Speaking of choosing to be on YouTube…
Recently, I’ve come across more than a few videos of kids having meltdowns in public places. Most of these videos don’t seem to be uploaded by parents, friends or relatives. On the contrary, they’re usually uploaded by a (probably childless) stranger. Then a bunch of folk add witty comments about how the tantrum “should” be handled, what a bad parent (usually the mother) the attending parent is, and how this is an example of why he or she will never have kids or how his or her kids will never do that kind of thing in public.
Those of you who are parents can stop laughing now.
Been there. Done that. My kiddos were very low on the tantrum-having scale (at least in public). And I usually tried hard to avoid tantrums by not dragging hungry, tired kids from errand to errand. But…I have survived a tantrumapocalypse or two. I’m eternally grateful none of those made it on YouTube (standing among all the stares and helpful advice was torture enough).
Parenting technique aside, I have to wonder at a person who uploads a video of somebody without their consent, especially a child.
I surely don’t want my kiddos on YouTube without my consent. Heck, I don’t even like friends and family posting pictures of my children without asking.
But it seems like our world is moving in an always-on-stage kind of direction.
And I’ll admit to enjoying a video of someone doing something wacky now and then. I generally only watch if the video seems to be uploaded by the folks in it or with their knowledge or if you can’t really see said folks clearly enough to identify them later.
And I may or may not have visited that People of Wal-Mart site. I’m not admitting to anything.
What do you think? What are the ethics of posting videos of other people on YouTube?
Smile! You are on Camera by Anirudh Koul (Apapted), on Flickr | CC BY-NC 2.0
Miss_Lemon013 by kishrieves, on Flickr | CC BY-NC 2.0
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