I’m posting at the Lift List Club today talking about change, goals and the way life can dump bucket loads of, well, life on us. The question is: do we get buried in disaster or swamped with opportunity? Read more
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Welcome to another Life List Club Milestone Party. This time around it’s a very special occasion because the Life List Club is one year old!
There’s a blowout bash going on at the LLC blog. We’re all fessing up to the goal that surprised us the most and rumor has it that there’s a prize involved for a lucky commenter. So head on over and join the fun. Also, be sure to check out the other Life List Club writers’ blogs (see sidebar for blogroll) for even more fun (and maybe a few more prizes). Read more
Sherry Isaac is over at the Life List Club talking about what happens when we miss our goals. Head on over and check it out!
1999. The year the artist formerly known as Prince asked that we party like.
That summer, chauffeur to soccer games, school dances and babysitting jobs, a familiar beat reverberated in this mother’s minivan. ‘Steal My Sunshine’, a one-hit wonder released by Toronto-based band, Len.
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Stay tuned. The Life List Club Milestone Party is coming up in two weeks! And it’s gonna be a whopper because the Life List Club is turning one year old.
I’m over at the Life List Club blog talking about wasting time and whether (or not) it’s possible to waste time well. Come on over and join the conversation.
The gloriously perseverant Jess Witkins is at the Life List Club today, talking about Dr. Meg Jay’s work and asking if the choices we make in our 20s can define our entire lives. Head on over and join the discussion.
I’m posting at the Life List Blog today, talking about the lessons I’ve learned from my grandmother’s passing. Please drop by and say hello and tell us how you would finish the phrase “Life is too short to…”
Life Really is Too Short (Even When it’s Long)
Recently, my grandmother passed away. And, as is so often the case with the death of a family member, the regrets came along with the sadness. Why didn’t I write and visit anywhere near as often as I should have? Why didn’t I know her better? Why? Why? Why?
I realized that life is really too short not to make sure our friends and family know we love the. It’s too short to put off that visit, call, letter or email. It’s too short not to tell them we love them as much as we can.
Life is too short to create regrets.
It’s too short to put off our dreams. Whatever it is we wish for…
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In other news, I’ll be jumping into ROW80 Round 2 next week. It’s taken me a little while to get settled in this round but it’s gonna be great one.
Check out the April-May writing challenge. It’s all about first impressions and famous last words.
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Procrastination. One of my biggest weaknesses. The sweet siren song of “later…I’ll do it…later” calls to me across the great expanse of my to-do list. Does it call to you too?
Here is a piece I wrote for the delightful Pam Hawley one Life List Club Friday. If you’ve ever been seduced by the demon Procrastination or if you know someone who has…or if you’re one of those organized types and just want to point and laugh at us procrastinators, keep reading…
*originally posted at Pam Hawley’s blog on 10/7/11*
When I Have More Time and Other Lies We Tell Ourselves
How many times have you said the following things to yourself?
“I’ll start that diet…tomorrow.”
“I’ll take one of those writing classes after the holiday hubbub settles down.”
”I’ll try that Twitter thing when I’m not so busy at work.”
“I’ll lay my plans for world domination when the kids get a little older and don’t need me so much.”
“I’ll start/finish writing my novel when I have more time.”
If you’re like me, the count is somewhere around…well, you figured you’d count it up later and then forgot.
I know, I know. You have 542,367,895,129 to do in a day.
Adding one more thing, especially if it’s not for your day job or your home or your family, feels like it might just bring everything crashing down.
So we tell ourselves we’ll do it when we have just a little more time. But that’s a big fat LIE. Say it with me, “Liar liar pants on fire.” Because there will never be a little more time. And, if there is just a smidge more time, something else will come along and fill it up.
You know it’s true.
And day after day sneaks past us like ninja kittens until we are left looking back at a long span of years, scratching our heads and wondering how all that time went by without us pursuing our passions.
Believe me, I know how it goes. I’m Queen of Later.
Bow down before me, all you procrastinators, or feel my wrath. Mwahahahaha. Um, what? Oh…really? Ok. Sorry. Back to the topic…
Seriously though, procrastination is one of my biggest weaknesses. Email piles up until my inbox is begging for mercy. Laundry piles up until we’re desperately washing tiny loads just to have underwear and jeans to wear. My exercise machine grows a fur coat of dust, my reading list grows and my outline languishes.
It’s so easy to put stuff off, especially if it has to do with writing. And especially when the writing gets hard. I tell myself I’ll just do it later. I promise this time.
But since we all know there probably won’t be a later or a little more time, we have to carve out time right now. Because the demon Procrastinator lurks around every corner and behind every dust bunny.
But, um, how do we go about this exactly? How do we smite the Evil Procrastinator?
Here’s some things that work for me:
- Make a list of goals and pick some folks to keep you accountable – Life List Club and ROW80 are awesome ways to put your goals out there and find a cheering/keep-you-in-line section.
- Start small – If the big goal make you feel like you’re standing at the bottom of Mt Everest, try making tiny daily or weekly goals. It’s easy to build on them and develop a sense of trust in yourself. I’m all about the baby steps. But, if you’re motivated by big goals, set big goals to challenge yourself.
- Get up early – I am so not a morning person. But, if I don’t wake up at least an hour before everyone else in the house gets up, it’s a huge challenge to get any writing done. Or you could stay up really late instead.
- Schedule reminders on your phone – Schedule daily writing times and program your phone’s calendar to remind you twice. Really pester yourself.
- Plan, plan, plan and list – It’s weird, I love to make lists but I used to hate making a daily schedule or an outline. I wanted to be spontaneous with my creative work and just go with the flow…except the flow usually led to nothing much getting done. So now I plan and plot and list. Plus, it’s fun to tick everything off my list.
- Visualize yourself succeeding and taking joy in every step.
- Leave yourself notes everywhere reminding you of your goals and cheering yourself on.
- Cut back on time-sucks – There’s almost always more play in our daily schedules than we realize. We putter around, watch tv, surf the net, etc. At least some of those things can go so we have more time to pursue our dreams.
- Give yourself permission to take a break – It’s easy to get overwhelmed. Cut back on your goal schedule or take a break. Just be sure to set specific goals for those cutback and breaks too so the goals don’t get abandoned.
So, even though it’s still a bit of a struggle for me, I’m learning to work around my wicked procrastinating ways. And, by all that is caffeinated, I will get my novel written (and the email read, the laundry done, the weight lost…)!
Do you put off your dreams? Procrastinate on your goals? How do you conquer that procrastination?
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Lego Joker by Adam Crowe, on Flickr CC BY-NC-SA 2.0
Welcome to another Life List Club Friday. Today, I’m at Jenny Hansen’s, fessing up to my
not so secret love of tacos. And, over here, we have the super-funny and always-cool Jess Witkins with us, talking about dreams and fear and cute little zombie kittnens. Take it away Jess…
Are You The Main Character of Your Life?
Do you ever start to dream about the things you’re doing, watching, or reading? I didn’t use to. But lately my dreams have taken on a very suspense/horror feeling about them. I think I need to stop reading Dan Brown books and watching zombie/vampire/witch shows before bed (but I so love Walking Dead and Vampire Diaries!) Read more